> I can connect my phone up to a bluetooth dongle, but it doesn't
> appear in "My Phones"
I'm not using a BT dongle at the mo but when I did with WinXP SP1 & the
Widcomm stack (used by most dongles), I had to enable the same virtual com
port as the *Client* one listed in the BT software options: Client Apps tab,
the com port should be listed under Bluetooth Serial Port. Go to Control
Panel, Phone Monitor Options, Com Port tab & set it there. You may need to
also set that v com port to Reserved. Installing BT dongles correctly with
XP SP2 is more complicated. You may also like to visit these sites:
http://www.geekzone.co.nz/content.asp?contentid=760
For installing BT dongles with WinXP SP2:
http://www.geekzone.co.nz/content.asp?contentid=3163
Once you have this working, all SE s/w should see the phone over BT.

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